Saturday, May 19, 2012

Hair woes and joys.

I have been away for a bit. Between my computer breaking and the pure crazy busyness of spring, I have not had a moment to post anything.  One of the events of the month is the girls haircuts. It is plural because they have had two haircuts this month, both from family members.
It all started two weeks ago when I had planned to the kids pictures taken for Caleb's 2 year photos and the girls 4 year photos (because I have been slacking on their photos too!). The night before the shoot I was feeling pretty good. They had their baths, I had their clothes laid out and ironed, their bags packed, and all the kids in bed for the night (and it was only 9pm!). Of course this was a perfect recipe for a disaster. Twenty minutes after I patted my own back, the girls came out of their room. I was actually surprised to see them because they had been completely silent so I had assumed (foolishly) that meant they were actually sleeping. Well in fact they had been cutting each others hair.  Let's just say that Kay is going to make a better hairdresser than Grace based on the results. ;)
Grace- post haircut.

Kay's -post 1st haircut
I am ashamed to admit how mad I was. I kept it together while they were in the room, but when I walked out of their room, I may have chucked the scissors across the room and yelled, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! THE NIGHT BEFORE PICTURES?! COME ON NOW!!!" Not my finest moment. Of course later the guilt trip over my reaction occurred since I truly want my children to have their beauty come from within and not put such an emphasis on outward appearance. Yes, there is the safety issue of them playing with scissors that I can be rightly upset about, but truly in my heart I was mainly upset that they "ruined" their hair (especially after growing their bangs out for 6 months!!).

I did decide to go through with the pictures the next day. (Part of me wants those pics to show them when they are older.... high school graduation anyone?!?!) The pictures really did turn out cute. I just kept using mommy spit to slick Kay's "bangs" sideways so you can't really tell how crooked they are. See proof they turned out cute:


My three cuties! 
Because they cut their hair so jaggedly and short in the front, I kind of thought it was pointless to pay and have someone 'fix' it. I didn't just want them to cut more from the front. There were big chunks in the back though that just made it look a bit like the 80s mullet. I really wanted them to have a summer haircut too. Therefore, I decided to try to cut it myself. It was messy, started in the shower, continued to the kitchen, and ended outside, but we finally finished. It amazes me how different their hair is. Kay's hair is super fine and thin while Grace's hair is thick. She has a LOT of hair. Overall I am happy with how the cuts turned out. Iwent for a bob since it is easy and cute. It was my first attempt at cutting their hair. I still have no clue what to do with Kay's bangs so I just left them. Hopefully they will grow out quickly. I think they feel pretty too, which helps since my overreaction left them feeling bad about their hair look. Words do not describe how bad I feel about make my daughters feel anything but beautiful.

Kay.....such a cutie

My beautiful girls! :) 

Look at that smile! 
Overall, their hair looks cute and they continue to be my beautiful girls, inside and out. Geez, I love them. May God assist me in helping them value themselves as beautiful women of God created in his image.

2 comments:

  1. Just think about how much you are going to laugh about this20 years from now...the pictures will be a precious memory of their little experiment! You are a great mom!

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  2. Kelly, Later you will appreciate the initiative it took to attempt their own hair cuts, as well as the responsiblity of wanting to see through long bangs:) So funny and such sweet faces! Love Mom aka Grandma Pat

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